Eskortmodell Sai Jaiden, Sydney

"Fall in love every day
Deeply, carelessly, recklessly
Like your heart’s a stolen muscle
driven wildly into the sunset."

I am Sai Jaiden Lillith, a practitioner of the erotic arts.

An escort, Dominatrix, Shibari specialist, pornographer, educator, event organiser, artist and musician; The Work through the lens of the erotic is my vocation, my passion and my activism.

Since my beginnings in 2016 my journey has led me to the houses of The Kastle (Syd), Temple 22 (Syd) and Fetish House (Mel). Through all of this I have worked diligently to acquire knowledge from leading sex industry professionals and continue to expand and interrogate my own practices and understanding.

One of the few widely recognised non-binary male embodied professional Dominants in the Australian Sex Industry, I hold my spaces with the highest levels of ethical, professional conduct. I have performed and presented workshops at OzKinkFest, Sexpo and many other events, as well as providing professional training and services to peers and initiates in the Sex Industry.

​I dance with shadows and flame, between masculine and feminine, beyond reason and dream, in laughter and tears, pleasure and pain, among the sacred and profane.


Love frames all I do

Your wellbeing is my highest priority.
As deep into the shadows we step, I will hold a place of safety that you may unfurl within.
With me, you can explore your darkest dreams while knowing your vulnerability and trust will be honoured.


Sex is Art

Art has always been a core part of my embodiment.
One can use a pen to tick a box; or to draw out the landscapes of dreams, write of worlds unseen, letters that expose our souls, that rend the heart. Flesh is the canvas on which I paint, the page upon which I inscribe the poetry of lust, the medium in which you will be transported.


I cherish connection

I delight in sensuality and soft spaces as much as ruthless sadism,
the uncomplicated coupling as much as multilayered power driven experiences.
All are tools of connection, to ourselves, to each other, to the divine.


Transcendent Lust

The erotic is one of the many paths to the sublime. Submerged in the seas of sensation; rituals of pleasure, incantations of obscenity, ordeals and catharsis, we bare ourselves to transformation and exaltation.


Divergent & Unmasked

One of the deep joys of my Path has been finding containers for my divergences to be containered, honoured and unmasked. The spaces I hold are trauma aware and physical / mental divergence friendly. Drop the masks with me, and allow yourself to just… be.


Knowledge & Power

To intentionally PLAY with power is an act of rebellion, a journey of self discovery. In a world where power is often used non-consensually, to truly KNOW power is to name the demons, and in doing so take your power back, whether in submission or Dominance.


Sex is Resistance

The erotic is a core part of our being, a place of power, pleasure and primality. To deny it is to deny ourselves. In a world which shames, censors and denies the erotic, to embrace and explore it is an act of defiance to those who would keep us imprisoned and powerless.

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ALL ARE WELCOME, ALL IS WELCOME

I session with all genders, all ages (18+) and all races and creeds. My only limitation is that those who come do so with respect. I welcome all your expressions and reactions; this is a place where your rage, joys, sorrows, griefs and laughter are welcome.

Offerings:
- Full service: penetrative sexual intercourse / erotic exploration
- BDSM (incl. bondage, impact play, psychological play, role play, edgeplay, regression play, pet play, CBT / Intense Genital Experiences, pegging, training, Authority Exchange, Power Exchange, high protocol, medfet, clamps, trampling)
- Shibari experiences
- Ritual journeys
- Training / Coaching
- Education

Testimonials:
“Thank you for being such a wonderful part of the journey. All who session with you, all who have been taught by you or worked alongside you at Temple 22 leave rave reviews and are left thirsting for more.” Mistress Ruben, Temple 22

“I was nervous about my time with Mistress Lillith, but I had no need to be. Within minutes she had me under her spell, eagerly awaiting each delicious new sensation. She expertly teased me and toyed with me, reading my body beautifully. She was very attentive, incorporating all of the elements I had mentioned wonderfully, as well as delightful and unexpected surprises. My only regret? Being so blissed out and in my body that I didn’t open my eyes more to drink in her stunning image above me. I cannot recommend making time to see Mistress Lillith highly enough, a truly incredible experience awaits you!” Nora Nymph

“This was my first time seeing a professional, my first time with rope and my first time with an experienced person in BDSM. I had originally only booked one session, but it was so mind blowing and addicting that I just had to book another one almost straight away and I’m already dreaming of our third session together. Jaiden took what I wanted and added so much more to the experience that it went into the realm of my ultimate fantasies.” – Carina

“First suspension with Jaiden Lillith. I’ve never felt so vulnerable and alone in my life – but with so much strength in the loneliness. I’m aware I don’t experience rope like most bunnies seem to but Jaiden gave me strength when I was feeling so alone, I found strength in being by myself thanks to them. And being able to sit here afterwards, so strong in – and by – myself, is a greater gift than I ever could’ve thought possible. Thank you.” – Kristen (Suspension Shibari / Waxplay session)

“Just want to say I had a wonderful time at the (Domina) Party tonight. I feel like you know all my darkest desires! I really like your style, from the subtle whispers of “Good girl” to the gentle caressing before the harsh whip. You’re like my role model , when I channel my domme side. Graceful, gentle but firm…. You’ve all been wonderful in taking my S & M virginity.” – Tiffany / Tim (Domina Parties – Obey)

“It was as if you wrapped a rope around all the shattered pieces of myself and drew them back into me. It was like coming home.” – K (Shibari session)

“That was amazing, that was beyond all of my expectations. You just took six months of pent up energy and released it…. I should have come to you earlier. There are no words to describe it. Thank you!” – B (Shibari / Headmistress – School Girl session)

“That was out of this world. Everything I expected and more.” – B (Medical / Interrogation / Electroplay)